Interior Designer Elkhart Goshen Indiana
We purchased an old farmhouse built in 1900 that was a blend of turn of the century charm and bold 1960's design style....and I'm not talking an iconic Eames chair but instead...
dark pine kitchen cabinets......(which I quickly painted white)....
Lovely gold shag carpeting....
dark knotty pine paneling, wallpaper and yes the dreaded.....textured......
linoleum floors (sorry ignore the cute kiddos dressed up in Halloween costumes and look at that ugly flooring--and what's the black plastic line on the wall--is that supposed to be trim???)!
The tiny farmhouse was only 1300 sq ft, of which 300 was a back porch. That's almost 1/4 the size of the house! It was basically a giant utility room for laundry, storage and for the large outdated boiler (that's a furnace sweetie).
But I saw an old home full of character and charm that can only be earned by experience that was hoping that a family would love it. And I could envision and imagine the possibilities and potential of the home and the life I wanted to live there.
Because of love, our family grew. This growth brought new challenges to our already tiny, ugly duckling farmhouse.
Some of our friends recommended that we sell the home or even tear it down and build new instead. And sometimes that does make good sense. I mean, do you remember the Money Pit?
But we loved the character of the home and the simple life we lived in all eight rooms.
We raised our four children here - mostly outside (because inside it was too tiny).
Because of that, I'd have to say, they really gained an appreciation and curiosity for nature. and God's good creation (and yes, even the Amish buggies would slow down when passing by on these days).
And were able to enjoy the responsibilities of raising and caring for pets.
Both large ....
They also learned some basic engineering and physics principles. Like how things work.
And what goes up...must come down.
And because innately I knew that my house was my canvas, I created beauty whenever and wherever I could. Sometimes in the oven for my lovelies or for others.....
..... and when things got desperate, I painted the mail box for my handsome honey (p.s he loves tractors)...
...but mostly in the yard and gardens which became extensions of our tiny house
The memories we create here are priceless....
And so is a home that nurtures and restores you.
You see, our love affair with our home is not just about the size of the house or the floor plan, or the gardens or the cooking or the decorating--they are all just pieces of the puzzle--instead, a home is part of a much bigger picture.
So, we decided to love our family by loving the old house as much as it was loving us.
But this meant change and change is a good thing but getting there can be challenging.
I was already busy being wife and mom and the thought of a home renovation was overwhelming especially thinking about all the decisions to be made. And I don't know about you but I've learned there is freedom and joy in making good choices.
So, of course we started with the 'free advice' route. You know, interviewing contractors and builders. Then we interrogated store clerks and tradesmen, searching for solutions. But everyone we talked to had different opinions that either didn't make sense or fit our style, goals or budget. And honestly, sometimes our division was hurtful.
What I learned is that sometimes it is good to resist worldly opinions and pressure until you know exactly what you want to create and love (aka: a plan).
You see the world is one teacher and God-breathed inspiration is another. And what we really needed to accomplish our goals wouldn't come from the world but would come in a different way.
So I returned to college to finish what I had started years earlier--a design degree. And the first thing to change was my mind because I learned not only that I did have what it takes to become a designer......but I was also pretty good at it!
I learned how to think and problem solve like a designer and how to plan and manage all those 'details' and ideas and turn them into drawings and plans not just for myself but later for others as well.
And after the thinking changed my responses and decisions did as well.
And my Handy Hubby and I started creating a master plan and when we were finished, we knew exactly what we wanted, and needed, what it would look like and what it would cost. It was a massive remodel but we decided to invest in the details that would instill the original structure with warmth and character.
Now we were ready to talk to contractors and ask for bids.
Here's what our floor plan basically looked like before...notice that giant utility room outlined in green....
.....and here's what it looks like now.
You'll notice we tried to maintain the original footprint of the house but make better use of the space.
In addition the kitchen was gutted and rebuilt according to my drawings and specifications.
Have you ever had something custom built for you? This kitchen fits me like a tailored suit and has inspired and motivated me to create some amazing goodies in it!
Because we live in the middle of Amish town USA, custom built cabinets were attainable and affordable.
And I turned an unused bedroom dresser into a stylish focal point for one kitchen wall
And even though we had a plan and a process to our vision, it was still stressful at times. Like when we caught Joe and Ben on a ladder trying to help out!
And because nowadays, everybody loves the 3-D walk through... I recreated our home using my Chief Architect software---the one with the 'magic powers.'
With an old barn, acreage and four outbuildings on our farm, we've decided God's strategy for change is best... "little by little" ( Exodus 23:30:).
Preserving not only a piece of our history but a piece of our future as well.
And that's okay because the best therapy ever is to live in a home you love...
and love to come home to.
A peaceful place where you feel safe and loved and memories are made - a beautiful place to recharge after a stressful and ugly day.
A home that has been prayed over, planned and prepared for.
I have found that such a place makes you want to live up to the expectation.
And isn't that the story of the Gospel as well (1 John 4:19) to live a life of generosity, love and faithfulness and to inspire this love in others so that they can do the same?
Here's the truth -beauty inspires, heals, empowers, encourages and gives us hope. It doesn't matter how we are inspired - whether from a home, a person, a meal, a verse or a story. All beauty tells a story and ultimately points our hearts and imaginations to the greatest Story of All.
So, If your home is your story. what story is it telling? In such a time as this, it is so important to share your beauty with others any and every way we can!
It inspires others and influences the way we live, which changes us and the world we live in.
Let's make the world more beautiful today!
(Luke 10: 27)
Do you feel overwhelmed or stuck trying create a beautiful and meaningful home? Or maybe you have just a few questions about color, style or layout. Here's my best advice...be the Proverbs 14 woman and create a plan and a strategy! It is the same as creating a budget, planning a vacation or a meal or learning how to live a victorious Christian life. Yes, it takes time and discipline but it will help you make wise choices, give you confidence, put you in control, save you money and bless others.
Need help creating a design plan or strategy? I can help you as much or as little as you want - contact me here!
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About this blog...
I began writing this blog in May 2016 after discovering that my mother always wanted to be a writer. She has Alzheimer's disease and she'll never realize her dream. Sometimes in our deepest grief we are motivated to encourage others to fearlessly be themselves so that their gifts and stories are shared. I mean, how else can we change the world?. So I began to record the things that reflect who I am and what is important to me, because one day my memories too, may be gone and what would that mean to the people God gave me to care for and the good works He gave me to do? So, here is where I share the important stuff so that you can learn real design, not decorator tricks, but fundamental and salient concepts to apply so that you can create your own exemplary home and so that my family and I can remember the life we lived and created here in our home, our sacred place. Because my work is important, this is also where I share my favorite design projects and how good design enhanced their lives as well. I hope you're inspired and encouraged as I share my memories, my work, my mission & my life. Many blessings, (Numbers 6: 24-26)